A Chain Letter…

I generally despise chain letters just as much as the next guy. Any time I get an email that has more than 1 “Fwd:” in the subject line, or contains a string of forwarded emails telling me how great this is, it’s an instant virtual file-13. Still, I got this one from someone who doesn’t generally email me, and I figured I’d actually take a few minutes to read it and see what it was about.

It hit me right where those sappy romance movies (uhh, chick flicks, whatever…) do, and I thought I’d take a few minutes to re-type some of the points and pass them along. Sure they may not all be accurate, and they’re by no means keys to a perfect relationship, but they’re sweet and (for the most part) true, so here we go…

  1. Don’t force her to do anything.
    She won’t trust you if you do and it’ll be awkward [not to mention some guys in uniform may show up...]
  2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other.
    She always gets butterflies when you do it; it makes her feel like you want her.
  3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.
    It makes her feel like you really love her.
  4. Cuddle with her.
    She’ll feel like you’re there for her.
  5. Hug her from behind.
    It makes her feel special.
  6. Write little notes.
    She smiles. They’re cute; the end.
  7. Compliment her honestly.
    No girl likes a liar and no girl likes a person who lies about it when you compliment her.
  8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
    It makes her feel wanted.
  9. Be super sweet to her.
    All girls like a super sweet guy.
  10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
    She’ll go to bed with a smile.
  11. Comfort her when she cries.
    She’ll feel like you’ll ALWAYS be there for her.
  12. Wipe away her tears.
    It’ll show you’ll always be there.
  13. Love her with all your heart.
    And not with your brain (or other organs).
  14. Pick her up and flirt with her.
    She’ll scream and say put me down, but she loves it.
  15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).
    Every girl loves a guy who is a gentleman.
  16. Dont’ let your friends talk trash about her, it’ll get back to her.
    And it’ll make her feel like you aren’t really there for her.
  17. Take her for a long walk at night.
    She just wants to be alone, and that’s not always bad. The world can be annoying sometimes and you just need to be alone.
  18. When it’s cold outside, hold her close.
    You want her to be happy, and she’s happy in your arms.
  19. Draw on or rub her back.
    It just feels good and relaxing.
  20. When you tell her you love her, really love her.
    Too many people toss it around, but she’ll know if you truly mean it.

And no, I’m not going to tell you to pass this along to 10 friends or suffer for the rest of your life alone and depressed. Take them as you will and think about some of these the next time you’re out for a walk with that special person in your life…

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